Here are a few simple things you can do to build a strong connection with your kids:

1. Make deposits into their “goodwill account.” What’s a goodwill account? Think of it like a savings account – the more quality time or goodwill you deposit, the more you accumulate. By making “deposits” like spending time with your kids, showing them small acts of kindness or going out of your way to compliment them, you grow your kids’ goodwill accounts. Over time, you’ll notice that your kids will start to make deposits in the goodwill accounts of others; perhaps it starts with you, then siblings, all the way up to friends, teachers and even strangers. Connecting with your kids on this level gives them the tools they need to learn to make spreading kindness a habit.

2. Be present. In the digital age of constant connection via smartphones and tablets, being truly present can be easier said than done – but it’s one of the best gifts you could give your children. Strong bonds can be built with simple activities such as conversation, reading, homework or working on a puzzle together. Being present helps build connection, which in turn helps your kids feel comfortable coming to you with questions or issues.

3. Make a recipe together. When the whole family acts as a team, incredible bonding can occur. And a great place for teamwork is in the kitchen! Pick a favorite family recipe and make it together. Or take it a step further and make a pot of soup: ask each family member to contribute an ingredient or two. The best part? After the food is done, you all get to enjoy it together.

4. Work on an art project together. Similar to cooking, crafting together is another great way to build strong connections. The end result lasts beyond the activity itself when the fruits of your collective labor can be displayed as a reminder of your time together. Buy a canvas and have each child pick the medium they’d like to use (paint, glitter glue or markers) and see what you can all create together. If arguments occur, it’s a good idea to have smaller, individual canvases available as back-up.

5. Get the neighborhood involved. They say it takes a village to raise a child – and it’s good to find fun and safe ways for your child to bond with neighbors. Need a good idea? Encourage your kids to put on a play or a talent show with the other neighborhood children, where all parents are invited to your back yard to watch the big event. Bonding with family is important, but it’s also important to help them nurture other relationships and friendships as well.

Simple moments of connection build strong relationships with your kids.  For more tips on connecting with your kids at any age, visit our website.